Brain Gym®

Brain Gym® is Edu-K’s movement program for enhancing the physical skills of learning in the areas of organisation, focus and communication was developed by Paul E Dennison PhD and Gail Dennison in the mid 1980s. Paul was an educator with a background in Applied Neuroscience and Gail was an artist and movement educator with a background in Montessori education and natural vision improvement.

There are 26 Brain Gym® movements that encourage the development of the following main areas of the human experience:

  • the physical areas of learning – this term (for a concept unique to Edu-K) refers to the sensory motor mechanics behind each academic and cognitive skill.
  • self-regulation – the self care initiative, and self-direction that are best learned through movement and social interaction.
  • structured play – interactions with others or with objects in which a theme provides a creative context.
  • symbolic thinking – mental processing in which, by mastery of the coding words and images, concrete physical experience is represented
  • aesthetic appreciation  the perception of beauty and other sensory-emotional values experienced in such areas as nature, fine arts, and coordinated movement.

With these backgrounds, it is easy to imagine how Paul and Gail created these movements together to enhance learning and personal development. The movements support

Only licensed Brain Gym® facilitators can teach these 26 movements to parents and educators and use them in their work. 

Caroline is a licensed Brain Gym® facilitator and uses these movements in her own daily practice, with her clients, offers workshops and the full 26 Movements ‘Teacher’s Edition’ Course.

If you would like to learn more about Brain Gym® and how it may enhance the learning of your child or the children you teach or your own, please contact Caroline 

Reference: Dennison, Paul.E., & Gail E. 2010. Brain Gym® Teacher’s Edition. United States:Hearts at Play Inc., California.

Primitive Reflex Integration & Rhythmic Movement Therapy

Primitive Reflex Integration & Rhythmic Movement Therapy

Rhythmic Movement Therapy (RMT): How Early Movements Shape Brains, Bodies and Behaviour

If someone told you that some of the most powerful tools for supporting learning, emotional balance and development were the same movements babies naturally make in the first months of life… would you believe them?

Welcome to Rhythmic Movement Therapy (RMT)—a gentle, movement-based approach that taps into the body’s earliest wiring system to improve posture, emotional regulation, sensory processing, and access to learning.
And yes—this applies to children and adults, including those with autism, ADHD, dyslexia, dyspraxia and more.

Let’s explore how it works, why it matters, and what it could mean for your child or for you.


What Exactly Is Rhythmic Movement Therapy (RMT)?

Rhythmic Movement Therapy (RMT) is a reflex integration programme. That means it uses simple movements that mimic the natural patterns babies make before and after birth—those instinctive wiggles, stretches, kicks and rolls.

These early movements help build the foundations for:

  • posture
  • central nervous system (CNS) maturity
  • the vestibular system (balance and spatial awareness)
  • sensory processing
  • emotional stability
  • memory and learning
  • and behavioural self-regulation

RMT uses these early movement patterns to rebuild or strengthen neurological foundations when development has been disrupted, delayed, or stressed.


Where Did RMT Come From? A Fascinating Beginning

RMT has a surprisingly creative origin story.

The first movements were designed by Kerstin Linde, a Swedish self-taught therapist who used her skills as a photographer to observe how infants naturally move. She noticed that babies follow a rhythm—uncoordinated, jerky movements gradually become smooth, controlled and beautifully rhythmic.

She developed a method called Rhythmic Movement Pedagogy, later renamed Harmony Doctrine.

A Psychiatrist’s Discovery

In the mid-1980s, psychiatrist Dr Harald Blomberg—who had ongoing physical effects from childhood polio—visited Linde for help. After experiencing profound improvements in his coordination and stability, he became deeply interested in the role of early reflexes in neurological development.

He began using her movements with his psychiatric patients with excellent results.

A Global Framework Emerges

In 2003, Moira Dempsey, a teacher and kinesiologist, met Dr Blomberg while working with children with special needs. She had already spent years studying movement and reflex development and immediately recognised the transformative potential of this work.

Moira believed (as many clinicians and Caroline does today) that:

Challenges don’t define us—our nervous system can change when we’re given the right developmental experiences.

She went on to co-found Rhythmic Movement Training International (RMTi) to create a consistent, teachable framework for practitioners worldwide.


Why Reflexes Matter: The Foundation We All Develop From

“Primitive reflexes” are the automatic movement responses babies are born with—or develop in the womb.
They help us survive, grow, and learn.

But here’s the key:

Reflexes should integrate.

This means they move into the brainstem and only activate when needed.

If they don’t integrate, or they switch back on later because of stress or trauma…

…they can affect:

  • focus
  • emotions
  • posture
  • learning
  • behaviour
  • sensory processing
  • coordination

This is important because many children (and adults) develop compensations to work around unintegrated reflexes—compensations that often show up later as:

  • anxiety
  • ADHD-like behaviours
  • dyslexia
  • dyspraxia
  • sensory overload
  • and sometimes diagnostic labels such as autism

RMT aims to gently re-create the movements that first formed those reflexes, allowing them to reintegrate into the nervous system in a safe and supported way.


A Closer Look at the Primitive Reflexes

Below is an overview of the major reflexes RMT works with and the potential long-term effects when they remain active.


Fear Paralysis Reflex (FPR)

Emerges in the embryonic stage. It is a full-body withdrawal response.

If not integrated, it may contribute to:

  • anxiety
  • low self-esteem
  • overwhelm
  • extreme shyness
  • sleep or eating challenges
  • perfectionism
  • elective mutism
  • panic, phobias, or withdrawal
  • difficulty with touch
  • clinging behaviour
  • fear of failure
  • low stress tolerance
  • controlling or aggressive behaviour

Often FPR is linked with an unintegrated Moro Reflex.


Moro Reflex (Startle Reflex)

Triggered by sudden sensory changes.

If unintegrated, a child or adult may experience:

  • emotional outbursts
  • sensory hypersensitivity
  • weak immune function
  • reading/writing difficulties
  • poor balance
  • poor stamina
  • difficulties adapting to change
  • cycles of hyperactivity and exhaustion
  • digestive issues

Tonic Labyrinthine Reflex (TLR)

Helps babies learn about gravity, muscle tone and head control.

Unintegrated TLR may cause:

  • hunched posture
  • poor balance
  • fatigue
  • difficulty judging distance or space
  • jerky movement
  • toe walking
  • challenges with stairs
  • visual or auditory processing issues

Asymmetric Tonic Neck Reflex (ATNR)

Supports one-sided movement and early hand-eye coordination.

If active beyond 6 months, it may contribute to:

  • dyslexia
  • writing or spelling difficulties
  • challenges with maths
  • confused handedness
  • reading and listening difficulties

Symmetric Tonic Neck Reflex (STNR)

A transitional reflex that moves a child from lying to crawling.

If unintegrated, a child may experience:

  • poor posture
  • headaches
  • trouble sitting still
  • difficulty with reading or writing
  • “W-sitting”
  • vision challenges
  • difficulty copying from the board
  • ape-like walking

Spinal Galant Reflex

Assists in birth, crawling and creeping.

If retained, it may contribute to:

  • bedwetting
  • fidgeting or hyperactivity
  • poor concentration
  • scoliosis or hip rotation
  • poor endurance
  • poor posture or coordination
  • attention difficulties
  • short-term memory issues

Hand, Foot and Oral Reflexes

Include: Babinski, Plantar, Palmar, Hands Pulling, Grasp, Amphibian, Rooting, Suck and Babkin reflexes.

If unintegrated, they may contribute to:

  • speech delays
  • swallowing issues
  • dribbling
  • poor pencil grip
  • handwriting difficulties
  • weak ankles
  • toe walking
  • challenges expressing ideas in writing
  • poor manual dexterity

So How Does RMT Help?

RMT uses gentle, rhythmic movements—many of which feel calming or soothing—to:

  • Integrate overactive or retained reflexes
  • Rebuild neurological foundations
  • Improve sensory processing
  • Strengthen emotional regulation
  • Support access to learning
  • Reduce stress in the nervous system

Movements can be:

  • Passive – facilitated by a parent, carer or practitioner
  • Active – learned and done independently

And the best part?

They take only a minute or two a day.
Less is more.
Forcing the movements increases stress and reduces progress.

This makes RMT accessible, kind, and supportive for even the most sensitive children.


Who Can RMT Help?

RMT is used with children and adults with a wide range of challenges and labels, including:

  • Autism
  • ADHD
  • Dyslexia
  • Dyspraxia
  • Developmental delays
  • Sensory processing differences
  • PTSD (where reflexes can become reactivated)

It is not about “fixing” anyone.
It is about strengthening the foundations of safety, regulation and neurological readiness so learning, communication and wellbeing become more accessible.


Thinking You Recognise Some of These Signs?

Many parents reading about unintegrated reflexes suddenly recognise pieces of their child’s (or their own) story.

If that’s you—you’re not alone, and you’re not imagining it.

An RMTi Consultant can assess reflex activity and guide you through the movements that support integration and development.


Work With a Trained RMTi Consultant

Caroline is a fully trained, accredited and licensed Rhythmic Movement Training International Consultant and is listed on the official RMTi website.

If you’d like to explore whether RMT may support you or your child, you’re warmly invited to book a free 30-minute consultation.

How the Assemblage Point Shapes Your Wellbeing

How the Assemblage Point Shapes Your Wellbeing

Have you ever had days where your energy feels… off?
Where your mood, thoughts, sleep, or even your posture seem slightly skewed—like you’re somehow not quite centred?

There’s a little-known concept that offers a fascinating explanation for this:
the Assemblage Point.

Although it sounds mystical, the idea is rooted in the same basic science that governs stars, planets and galaxies: every energy system has a central vortex—a meeting point where everything comes together and stays in balance.

Humans, it turns out, are no exception.

Welcome to your energetic “home base.”

So… what exactly is the Assemblage Point?

Think of the universe: planets spinning, galaxies spiralling, stars generating magnetic fields. Each has a core energy point—an epicentre—that holds the whole system together.

Humans also have an epicentre. This is called the Assemblage Point.

It’s the main place where your energy field meets your physical body—the “junction box” of your emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual wellbeing.

When this point is centred, people often feel:

  • balanced
  • grounded
  • emotionally steady
  • mentally clear
  • physically strong

When it shifts out of place… things can start to unravel.

Where does the Assemblage Point come from?

Before you were born, everything about you—your body, your energy, your life force—was assembled at the umbilical cord.
This connection to your mother was both physical and energetic.

After birth, once the cord is cut, your Assemblage Point remains at the navel.
Over the next seven years, it naturally moves upwards into the centre of the chest, just behind the sternum.

A fun fact:
Many women naturally have a slightly higher Assemblage Point position than men (though not always).

And importantly…

It’s NOT the heart chakra and not the physical heart.

It’s an energetic vortex in the centre of the chest that creates a tubular flow of energy from front to back.
This flow generates a donut-shaped energy field around the body—like a ring doughnut made of light.

This is considered the “seat of consciousness,” where your:

  • etheric energy (life force)
  • astral energy (emotional field)
  • causal energy (mental + spiritual fields)

…should all line up when you’re in a state of health.

What knocks the Assemblage Point out of alignment?

Life.
Real, ordinary, difficult, joyful, stressful life.

These events can shift the Assemblage Point:

  • emotional trauma
  • grief, heartbreak, depression
  • abuse
  • shock
  • giving birth
  • bereavement
  • surgery
  • toxins or poisons
  • drug use
  • glandular fever
  • intimidation
  • major relationship changes
  • strokes
  • any sudden shock to the system

When it shifts, people may experience:

  • anxiety or panic
  • depression
  • exhaustion
  • mood swings
  • apathy
  • chronic fatigue
  • chronic stress
  • social anxiety
  • introversion
  • mental or physical illness
  • difficulties communicating
  • feeling “not yourself” or disconnected

It’s a bit like a car engine:
If the central timing is off, every other part must work harder.

Signs of a Splintered Assemblage Point

Sometimes the point doesn’t just shift; it splinters (also called fragmentation).
Different fragments can drift into different parts of the energy field.

This type of disruption has been associated with conditions such as:

  • Schizophrenia
  • Delusions
  • Bipolar disorder
  • Mixed or multi-layered conditions
  • Certain co-morbid presentations

Aligning and stabilising these fragments is part of Assemblage Point healing work.

The Astral & Causal Assemblage Points

Just as we have a physical Assemblage Point, we also have matching points in our:

  • astral body (emotional energy field)
  • causal body (mental + spiritual field)

These sit in our wider, egg-shaped energy field and can also be knocked out of alignment.

Bringing them back into line—above the physical Assemblage Point—is an essential part of full alignment and healing.

What does alignment feel like? A personal experience

During my training with Simon Heather, Founder and Principal of the College of Sound Healing, I experienced my own alignment.

At first, lying on the treatment bed, I felt lopsided.
I even tried to physically adjust myself—but the uneven feeling remained.

Then the alignment began.

I felt energy shift and centralise… moving through my whole body, down to my feet.
A lightness spread through me—almost weightless.

When I stood up, I felt taller.
Grounded.
More “present.”
More symmetrical.

Others noticed a brightness in my eyes and a softer, more relaxed expression on my face.

Every individual will experience something different—but many report a similar sense of clarity, calm and alignment.

How Assemblage Point Alignment Works

I am fully trained—and insured—to locate and realign the Assemblage Point using crystals.
You remain fully clothed during the treatment.

After your first alignment, you’ll receive aftercare instructions, which include listening to Assemblage Point sound frequencies once a day. These help to:

  • keep the point in place
  • gently shift it back if it moves
  • reduce the need for repeated realignments

Most people return within two weeks for a review.
If the point has shifted again, it is realigned.
This may be repeated for a few weeks until the point stabilises.

Lifestyle choices and overall wellbeing also influence how quickly it stays centred.

Sound Frequencies for At-Home Support

It is also possible to realign the Assemblage Point using sound frequencies alone.
Simon Heather has kindly given me permission to share these frequencies on my website.

FEMALE FREQUENCIES | MALE FREQUENCIES

How to listen:

  • Choose male or female frequency (don’t listen to both)
  • Use headphones
  • Keep the volume comfortable
  • Listen twice a day: morning + evening
  • Sit or lie down
  • Focus on the Assemblage Point diagram
  • Gently ask for your Assemblage Point to return to its correct position

At first, the sound may feel discordant.
That’s normal—discordant frequencies help move energy, while harmonious tones help stabilise it.

Pregnant women and children under 14 should not listen to these frequencies.

A note on technology and sleep

Electronic devices—phones, laptops, TVs—emit energy that can disrupt sleep and affect the body’s natural rhythms.

Listening to Assemblage Point frequencies before bed can help settle the system and improve rest.


Why work with a trained practitioner?

Because the Assemblage Point is so central to your physical, emotional, mental and spiritual wellbeing, it’s important to work with someone who is:

  • trained
  • experienced
  • insured
  • working ethically and safely

I’m delighted to now offer this empowering treatment to my clients—supporting children, young people and adults across the autism spectrum, alongside parents, families and professionals.

What Causes Autism?

What Causes Autism?

Autism is something many of us have heard about these days, but very few people feel they fully understand. It can feel mysterious, complex, and sometimes even overwhelming when we ask the simple question: what causes autism?

The honest answer is: there isn’t one single cause. Autism is not like catching a cold where you can point to one virus. Instead, it seems to develop through a mix of biology, environment, and early development. Researchers across the world are still exploring this puzzle, and every year new insights appear. Let’s take a gentle look at some of the main ideas.


Moving Away from Old Myths

Back in the 1940s and 50s, some early researchers believed autism was caused by emotionally cold or distant parenting. The phrase “refrigerator mother” was even used. Understandably, this idea caused deep pain for parents who were unfairly blamed. Thankfully, decades of research have proven this theory wrong. Autism is not caused by lack of love or poor parenting. In fact, many of the strongest advocates for autism awareness have been parents who fought against this harmful belief and many continue to fight for finding the contributory causes.


The Role of Genetics

Research shows that autism often runs in families, meaning genes play a part in how it develops. Twin studies have helped us understand this, showing that identical twins are more likely to both be autistic than non-identical twins.

At the same time, genes aren’t the whole story. Even twins with the same DNA can have different experiences, so environment and development also play an important role. Autism is shaped by a mix of factors that make each person wonderfully unique.

Some rare genetic conditions, such as Fragile X or Rett syndrome, can include autistic traits. Identifying these can help families access the right support.

Researchers now believe that many genes work together in different ways, leading to the wide range of strengths and differences seen across the spectrum. Autism can also look different in girls and women, meaning some may be diagnosed later in life. Growing understanding is helping to ensure every autistic person is recognised, valued, and supported.


Environment and Early Development

Genes are only part of the story. Environment also matters. Genes and Environment interaction is described in the scientific world as ‘Epigenetics’. By “environment” scientists don’t just mean pollution or chemicals—they also mean the entire womb environment, pregnancy health, early nutrition, and early life experiences.

For example, research has suggested that very low birth weight, complications during pregnancy, or exposure to certain infections and toxins may play a role. None of these automatically cause autism, but they can nudge development in different directions when combined with genetic vulnerability.

Over the years, some environmental theories have caused heated debate, such as the suggestion that vaccines might cause autism. Large studies have since been reported to show there is no convincing evidence of this, and major health bodies continue to reassure parents that vaccines are safe. However, the USA is further exploring the validity and claims made by some of these studies and creating new guidelines for parents to make better informed choices and decisions. Still, the conversation reminds us how important it is to keep exploring science with open eyes, while avoiding blame or fear.


A New Perspective: Primitive Reflexes

One lesser-known but fascinating idea is the role of primitive reflexes. These are automatic movements, some of which are present in the womb and start from the moment of conception. Babies are expected to be born with some already integrated or emerging and are tested for these following birth; such as the moro reflex. They help a baby survive, grow, and begin to interact with the world. Usually, as a child develops, these reflexes become “integrated”—they fade into the background as the brain and nervous system matures or they transition into more mature ‘adult’ reflexes, such as the Moro transitioning into the Adult Startle reflex, and the postural reflexes which develop not only the baby’s posture and physical development but their brain, emotional and learning development.

But sometimes, these reflexes don’t fully emerge, develop and integrate and this can be for many reasons. When that happens, the nervous system may stay in a more “immature” state, making it harder for the child to develop typically, process sensations, regulate emotions, develop smooth movement and coordination.

Here is a list of some of the reflexes and some of the related challenges that may appear when they are not fully integrated to helps us understand how this reflex movement system might be related to many developmental and other diagnosed medical health conditions:

The Fear Paralysis Reflex (FPR):

This is a withdrawal reflex that emerges in the embryonic stage. It is a total body withdrawal away from stimulus that is normal in the womb. The foetus reacts to stimulus by withdrawing inward and freezing. As tactile awareness develops, withdrawal upon contact gradually lessens. It is thought that this reflex is the first step in learning to cope with stress.

Ideally, the FPR merges into the Moro reflex and becomes inactive before birth. If the FPR is not fully integrated at birth, it may contribute to life-long challenges related to fear. People with the FPR active may often feel very anxious and tend to veer towards a negative mindset, which can prevent them from easily moving forward and to living a meaningful, interactive life.

An active FPR often goes hand-in-hand with an un-integrated Moro reflex. Possible effects of the FPR being unintegrated include:

  • Shallow, difficult breathing                                         
  • Underlying anxiety or negativity
  • Insecure, low self-esteem
  • Depression/isolation/withdrawal                                
  • Constant feelings of overwhelm                                
  • Extreme shyness, fear in groups                               
  • Excessive fear of embarrassment                                
  • Fear of separation from a loved one, clinging
  • Sleep & eating disorders
  • Feeling stuck
  • Elective mutism
  • Withdrawal from touch
  • Extreme fear of failure, perfectionism
  • Phobias
  • Aggressive or controlling behaviour, craves attention
  • Low tolerance to stress 
The Moro Reflex: (also called the infant startle reflex):

It is an automatic response to sudden change in sensory stimuli and/or a sudden change of any kind such as bright light, a change in body position, temperature, loud noise, intense touch, etc.

Effects of this reflex being retained include:

  • Easily triggered, reacts in anger or emotional outburst
  • Poor balance and coordination
  • Poor stamina
  • Poor digestion, tendency towards hypoglycaemia
  • Weak immune system, asthma, allergies and infections
  • Hypersensitivity to light, movement, sound, touch & smell
  • Vision/reading/writing difficulties
  • Difficulty adapting to change
  • Cycles of hyperactivity and extreme fatigue
  • A retained fear paralysis reflex might make a child extra anxious or withdrawn.
  • A retained tonic labyrinthine reflex could affect balance and posture.
Tonic Labyrinthine Reflex (TLR): 

This reflex provides the baby with a means of learning about gravity and mastering neck and head control outside the womb. It is important for giving the baby the opportunity to practice balance, increase muscle tone, and develop the proprioceptive and balance senses. The TLR interacts with other reflexes to help the infant start developing coordination, posture and correct head alignment.

It is vital for the TLR to do its job because correct alignment of the head with the rest of the body is necessary for balance, eye tracking, auditory processing, muscle tone and organised movements – all of which are essential for the development of our ability to focus and pay attention.

Possible effects of an active  TLR include:

  • Balance and coordination difficulties
  • Hunched posture
  • Easily fatigued
  • Poor muscle tone
  • Difficulty judging distance, depth, space and speed
  • Visual, speech, auditory difficulties
  • Stiff jerky movement
  • Toe walking
  • Difficulty walking up and down stairs
Asymmetric Tonic Reflex (ATNR): 

This is important for developing homo-lateral (one-sided) movements. When the infant turns his head to one side, the arm and leg of that side automatically extend. In the womb, the ATNR provides the necessary stimulation for developing muscle tone and the vestibular system. It assists with the birth process, providing one of the means for the baby to “corkscrew” down the birth canal. The ATNR also provides the ability to learn hand – eye coordination. By six months of age, this reflex should evolve into more complex movement patterns.

If the ATNR remains active it plays a significant contribution to academic problems at school and may be possible reasons for:

  • Dyslexia
  • Reading, listening, hand writing and spelling difficulties
  • Difficulty with maths
  • Confused handedness
Symmetric Tonic Reflex (STNR): 

This reflex is not a primitive reflex. It is a ‘transitional’ one. It’s an important developmental stage that transitions the baby from lying on the floor up to being able to crawl. At this stage in development, movement of the head is automatically linked to movement of the arms and legs. If the STNR remains active, it is another main cause of inability to function in school. This is because up and down head movements remain linked to arm and leg movements, making school work effortful and difficult.

The effects of an active STNR may present as:

  • Poor, hunched posture
  • Headaches from muscle tension in the neck
  • Difficulty writing and reading
  • Difficulty sitting still
  • “W” sitting
  • Difficulty copying from blackboard
  • Ape-like walking
  • Vision disorders
  • Find it difficult to stay on task 
Spinal Galant reflex: 

The Spinal Galant & Spinal Pereze Reflexes work in conjunction with the ATNR to help the baby’s journey down the birth canal. It is also thought to help babies balance and coordinate the body for belly crawling and creeping. It is thought to be connected to bladder function because a high percentage of children who are bedwetting past the age of five have an active Spinal Galant reflex. Possible long term effects of these refelexes being active/retained/unintegrated are:

  • Bedwetting
  • Poor endurance
  • Attention difficulties
  • Hip rotation to one side/scoliosis
  • Poor concentration
  • Poor coordination
  • Poor posture
  • Poor short-term memory
  • Fidgeting/hyperactivity

Other reflexes that Rhythmic Movement & Neurodevelopmental Consultants may assess and work with are the following foot, hand and oral reflexes – the Babinski, Plantar, Palmar, Hands Pulling, Grasp, Amphibian, Rooting, Suck and Babkin reflexes and their role in learning and development especially for speech, coordination, writing and language development

Some possible long term effects of an unintegrated/retained/active foot, hand and oral reflexes are:

  • Speech delay or difficulties
  • Swallowing problems
  • Poor social behaviour
  • Dribbling and drooling
  • Poor manual dexterity
  • Poor pencil grip
  • Handwriting difficulties
  • Loose, easily sprained ankles
  • Toe walking
  • Flatfooted or walking on sides of feet/hip rotation
  • Difficulty expressing written ideas

When certain reflexes don’t fully develop or “integrate” in early childhood, it can affect brain and nervous system development. This may help explain some of the challenges and behaviours seen in children and adults with conditions like autism, ADHD, dyslexia, dyspraxia, and others. Even after these reflexes have naturally developed, they can sometimes become active again following a traumatic event or ongoing stress, which may contribute to conditions such as PTSD.

As mentioned above, the good news is, that by using the rhythmic movements, there is research emerging showing that these reflexes can be integrated long after their typical developmental time and at any age.

The Gut and Brain connection to Autism:

Leaky Gut:

Some children experience what’s known as “leaky gut,” where the lining of the gut becomes damaged and allows tiny food particles and proteins to pass into the bloodstream instead of being properly digested or removed. Research suggests this can contribute to inflammation and certain changes in behaviour.

Because of this, some parents choose to try diets that remove certain proteins—such as gluten (found in wheat) and casein (found in dairy)—and notice improvements over time. Others focus on healing the gut by reducing additives and preservatives, or by supporting their child’s nutrition with supplements.

It’s always best to make these changes with the help of a qualified Nutritional Therapist, who can check for any deficiencies and create a safe, balanced plan.

Changing a child’s diet can be challenging, especially when they have sensory sensitivities or prefer routine foods. But with patience, gentle encouragement, and very small steps, many families find it’s possible—and see positive changes along the way.

Vitamins and Minerals: Supporting Your Child’s Health

Families that explore nutritional support to help their child’s brain, gut, and overall health have used vitamins B6 and B12, along with magnesium, DMG (Dimethylglycine), Folinic Acid that all play important roles in the body, including supporting brain function, nervous system health, digestion, detoxification and important cellular processes.

Vitamin B6 supports healthy nerves and brain function, helps make red blood cells, and plays a role in mood and immunity. When levels are low, some children may have more trouble with sleep, irritability, or focus.

Vitamin B12 is important for brain health and the body’s natural chemical balance. Some people don’t absorb enough B12 from food, so extra support can sometimes help.

Magnesium plays a part in hundreds of body processes, including muscle and nerve function, bone strength, and energy. It’s found in foods like leafy greens, grains, and nuts.

DMG (Dimethylglycine) helps the body with a process called methylation, which supports things like antioxidants, hormones, and brain chemicals. Some parents and researchers have noticed changes in speech and communication when using DMG supplements.

Folinic acid (Leucovorin) is a special, ready-to-use form of vitamin B9 (folate). It’s often used when the body can’t easily process regular folic acid. Folinic acid helps with DNA and red blood cell production, supports growth during pregnancy, treats certain types of anaemia, and can also reduce side effects of medicines such as methotrexate.

5-MTHF is another active form of folate that the body can use straight away. Folinic acid turns into 5-MTHF in one extra step, but both can be helpful—especially for people with an MTHFR gene variation that makes it harder to process regular folic acid.

Together, these vitamins and minerals help the body work well at a deep, cellular level — supporting natural detoxification, brain function, and healthy development. While supplements can be helpful for some children, they’re just one piece of a bigger picture. Working with a team of trusted professionals helps ensure any plan is safe, tailored to your child’s needs, and gives them the best opportunity to thrive.

The Immune System and the Gut

Another important reason to think about diet and gut health is that around 70–80% of the immune system lives in the gut. The gut lining is full of helpful immune cells that work together with trillions of good bacteria and other microbes to keep the body healthy and protected.

If the gut lining becomes damaged (often called “leaky gut”), it can make the immune system weaker and more sensitive, leaving a child or adult more likely to pick up infections or react to things in their environment.

A baby’s gut health starts developing during birth, as they pass through the birth canal and come into contact with their mother’s natural bacteria. This first exposure helps the baby’s immune system begin to develop. After birth, breastfeeding and the baby’s surroundings continue to shape and strengthen their gut microbiome — the community of helpful bacteria that supports overall health.

Vaccinations, Autism, and the MMR Debate: What Do We Actually Know?

If you’re a parent of a child on the autism spectrum — or even just thinking about vaccines — you’ve probably stumbled into the great “MMR and autism” debate at some point.
It’s one of those topics where emotions run high, opinions run loud, and facts… often get lost in the noise.

So let’s slow things down.
Let’s unpack the different types of research, the historical controversies, the newer findings, and what all of this really means when you’re trying to make informed, confident decisions for your child.

This isn’t about scaremongering or silencing.
It’s about clarity.


MMR and Autism: Why the Debate Exists

There are two main kinds of research that get talked about in this debate:

1. Epidemiological studies

These look at huge groups of children by analysing their medical records.
They don’t involve medical tests — just big numbers and big patterns.

2. Biological studies

These involve testing children directly — things like blood samples, immune markers, and physical symptoms.
Andrew Wakefield’s original work (and the studies that followed) fall into this category.

Most of the research that says “there is no link” between MMR and autism comes from those large population epidemiological studies.
Most of the research that suggests “there might be something worth exploring” comes from biological studies.

These two forms of research don’t contradict each other — they just answer different questions.


What the Medical Research Council (MRC) Actually Said

A key document often forgotten in this conversation is the 2001 Medical Research Council’s Review of Autism Research.

Here’s the important bit from Section 112:

The reviews agreed that there was no proven causal link between MMR and autism or “autistic colitis.”
However — and this is crucial — the Institute of Medicine noted that this does not rule out the possibility that MMR could contribute to ASD in a small number of children, because epidemiological studies are not precise enough to detect very rare effects.

They go on to acknowledge:

Like most population studies, these findings do not eliminate a theoretical possibility.
More biological research would be needed to explore whether infections or vaccines could contribute to ASD in rare cases.

Then, in Section 113, the MRC states:

Epidemiological studies cannot prove that vaccines are safe.
They can only rule out certain adverse effects to a certain degree of confidence.

This is an important nuance for parents — because the public conversation often presents the science as far more black-and-white.


Follow-Up Research: What Happened After Wakefield?

Despite the controversy, Wakefield’s work didn’t simply disappear.
Other scientists attempted to replicate parts of it — which is exactly how science should work.

Singh et al., 2002 & 2009

These studies looked at biological markers in children with autism.
Here’s what they found:

  • 60% of 125 autistic children had unusual MMR-related antibodies.
  • 0% of 92 non-autistic children (the control group) had them.
  • Many of the autistic children also showed antibodies that could affect the brain, suggesting immune system activity linked to the nervous system.
  • The 2009 study confirmed the earlier findings.

This doesn’t prove causation.
But it does suggest something worth investigating biologically — something epidemiological studies cannot detect.

As the MRC itself emphasised:
More biological research is needed.

Parents deserve clarity, not media arguments.


What Wakefield Actually Claimed (and Didn’t Claim)

Much of the public conversation about Wakefield is oversimplified or inaccurate.

In his book Callous Disregard, Wakefield admits to being “naive” in how he collected blood samples from children — a process considered unethical and the main reason he was professionally discredited.

But here’s what’s often misunderstood:

Wakefield and his co-authors never said MMR causes autism.

Their conclusion was cautious and measured:

“We have identified a chronic enterocolitis in children that may be related to neuropsychiatric dysfunction… Further investigations are needed to examine this syndrome and its possible relation to this vaccine.”

That’s it.
A medical observation, and a call for more research.

(For transparency, the retracted paper is still publicly accessible on The Lancet website.)


New Revelations: What’s Happening Now?

In 2025, something significant happened.

U.S. President Donald Trump asked Health Secretary Robert F. Kennedy Jr. to investigate the rise in childhood illnesses, including autism.

This led to:

  • renewed interest in previously hidden or overlooked research
  • deeper reviews of vaccine schedules
  • examinations of scientific and health organisations
  • comparisons between vaccinated and unvaccinated children
  • a push for parental rights and informed choice, especially in U.S. states with mandatory vaccination for school attendance

This investigation is ongoing, and we don’t yet know how these findings will influence the UK or other countries — but parents around the world are watching closely.


So Where Does This Leave Parents?

Some parents feel reassured by epidemiological research.
Others want biological studies to answer questions that still feel unresolved.
And many simply want space to make thoughtful, informed decisions without judgment or fear.

The truth is:

  • Science is always evolving.
  • And parents deserve clear, balanced information, not political battles or media wars.

At the end of the day, informed choice means having access to all the research — not just the parts that fit a narrative.

If you’re navigating this topic for the first time, or the fiftieth, you’re not alone.
And you deserve a place where your questions are safe, valid, and explored with respect.

In Summary

So, what causes autism? The best answer right now is: a mix of factors.

  • Genetics may provide a predisposition but are not found the be the one cause.
  • Environmental influences (before, during and after birth) may shape how that predisposition shows up;
  • Gut integrity and the microbiome affects brain and immune system development;
  • Primitive reflexes and early development could set the stage for how a child’s nervous system grows and responds to the world.

No single cause explains autism in every person. In fact, it may be better instead think of autism as many different pathways leading to a similar set of traits and behaviours, many of which are found in other conditions and diagnoses.

It’s important to remember that autism is diagnosed based on observed behaviours and what is reported to clinicians, who then decide whether these fit the diagnostic criteria in use at that time. Because these criteria have changed over the years, some people believe this explains the rise in autism diagnoses. However, others point out that changes in diagnostic guidelines alone cannot fully explain the dramatic increase — from around 1 in 10,000 during the 1960s, 1970s, and into the early 1980s. to roughly 1 in 36 today in the U.S and over 1:100 in the U.K.


Why This Matters

Understanding the causes of autism isn’t about blaming or finding fault. It’s about building compassion and creating better support. When we see autism as the result of complex biological and developmental processes, we can move away from harmful myths and towards practical ways of helping a person with the challenges they feel are affecting their daily living and capabilities; support them in developing the skills and life they aspire to achieve and fulfil their dreams and full potential.

For example, if primitive reflexes play a role, then simple daily movements might give a child more comfort and further support their development, learning and confidence. If genetics set the stage, then family awareness can help spot traits earlier, provide some understanding and may facilitate assessments, support, interventions and therapies sooner. If environment adds its influence, then supporting and educating parents in the possible environmental influences that may contribute to developing autism can help them make informed decisions and this can make a positive empowering difference to them and better outcomes for the whole family.


A Note on Identity

It’s also important to recognise that many autistic people don’t see their autism as something to be “fixed.” For them, autism is a part of their identity—a different way of thinking, sensing, and being in the world. Exploring causes should never be about labelling someone as “broken.” Instead, it should be about creating opportunities and environments where all autistic people can thrive, while respecting the diversity of all human minds.

The more we learn and share, the better we can support autistic people to create the life they want and reach their full potential—and perhaps even fulfil dreams that would not exist without their unique way of being in the world.

The Power of Pilgrimage and Prayer 

The Power of Pilgrimage and Prayer 
Farrah holding Lala (Teletubbie) with her brother trying to get her to look and smile at the camera in the gardens of Baha'u'llah in Akka, Israel

We were lost, confused and in the dark,

We traveled to Haifa, to the covenant Arc,

Baba took you by the hand,

To this Holy place, in this Holy Land…

Your brother and I patiently stayed,

In a little room, where we read and we played,

We waited and waited and wondered how long,

And decided to come and find where you’d gone…

As we walked through the gardens hand in hand,

I looked, I saw you but didn’t understand,

For under the shelter of this golden domed shrine,

In this Holy place in the golden sunshine,

Between those two grand Holy doors,

There you both were on the cool marble floor,

Baba sat with his back against the wall,

Watching over you as you laid face down on the floor…

When I asked Baba what had occurred,

I could hardly believe his every word!

His intention had been to walk nine times around,

But this Holy shrine had drawn you to ground,

After only three times before his hand you let go,

For what reason the Lord God did only know…

I asked and wondered why Baba felt it best,

Instead of inside, leaving you there to rest?

He took your brother’s hand and with no further talk,

Continued to finish his nine lap walk…

They took some time out, went inside to pray,

I stayed sitting where you’d chosen to lay,

I was gazing at you and the beautiful blue sky,

Assuming inside would be more powerful to lie…

Then it struck me as you lay on the floor,

Where you had laid was between the two doors,

Of the two Holy men laid to rest in this shrine,

You’d be safe on your own with no company of mine!

I continued to immerse in this heaven on earth,

And trust this was God and His handiwork,

Baba and your brother passed us five times more,

The sixth corner they turned, you woke and stood from the floor!

Was this a miracle on the the last lap of nine?

You woke from this trance and induction Devine?

No other explanation am I prepared to believe,

Im sure laying there Holy healing you received…

Baba suggested I take you inside,

Of this Golden domed shrine with your eyes open wide, 

In the beautiful gardens they would stay,

As I took your hand and we went in to pray…

On the Persian carpets I sat in awe,

With you sat on my lap looking around the wall,

There were beautiful paintings, carpets, fresh flowers 

There was no limit to this Devine moment of ours,

You sat very still, as opened my book,

As I read the prayers and my commitment I took…

‘Oh God please help me!

I know not what to do!

There’s no one to help me!

I only have you!

I promise I’ll do anything for my baby to speak

Please guide me and strengthen me, I feel so weak!’

The scent of the rose petals on the alter I smelt,

I walked over to the alter, holding you as I knelt,

I kissed the alter with gratitude and love,

Thankful for this moment to commune with above.

Baba and I, in a state of disbelief,

Took you both to the park to play and debrief,

What that day would initiate we could never have known,

And the power of prayer has undoubtedly shown,

Because I know I’ve been guided all the way,

To guide you to become who you are today… 

Now it’s my turn to deliver my part,

The promise I made from my broken heart,

To help others and share what I’ve learned and been through,

To enable and empower them, have aspirations like you,

This is my purpose, my passion, my vow,

This is my promise I must fulfill now…

Caroline Seyedi (May 19th 2018)

A Poem for Parents Receiving a Diagnosis for their Child

A Poem for Parents Receiving a Diagnosis for their Child

A Poem of Hope for Parents receiving a Diagnosis for their Child

It was dark, it was deep, it was grief, it was hell,

It was lonelier than drowning in the deepest dark Well,

Looking up from that place, the sky seemed so far,

Like the tiniest faintest universe star.

I couldn’t understand what I was hearing,

My beautiful child, my love so endearing,

How could this be? 

What did I do wrong?

How came this nightmare from a lullaby song?

What did this mean? 

I didn’t understand!

Which doctors will sort this? 

Who’ll take my hand?

Who’ll show me the way to sort this all out?

Who will explain what this Autism’s about?

Nobody could beyond it’s name,

Nobody led me, nobody came…

So down at the bottom of this deep dark pit, 

I rummaged around for the pieces to fit,

But none of them looked familiar to me,

None of them shared any colours you see…

They were all different shapes, from a different world,

To the one I had planned for my little girl,

What did this mean, my dreams had been shattered,

Nothing else registered, nothing else mattered…

At first I wanted to take us away, 

Away from this world to one far far away,

But I couldn’t do this, leaving others behind,

They kept us here and were a constant remind,

That there must be some answers, some knowledge somewhere,

Something to grasp in this cold dark dense air…

So slowly I clutched at the straws that I found,

And slowly but surely pulled myself off the ground.

I saw glimmers and sparkles like fairy dust light,

I heard words that registered in the coldest dark night,

I felt small quivers of hope deep down in my gut,

And I bounced in and out of this hopelessness rut…

Then one evening at bedtime in the kitchen she came,

Signing for milk like it was all just a game!

My excitement and shock I showed her with praise,

Her efforts and confidence not wanting to phase,

Rushing to warm milk in the microwave,

Rewarding her for the communication she gave, 

Hallelujah! Praise the Lord! 

This was her way of saying her first word!

This all happened at the age of two,

Decades later I can’t believe I’m telling you…

There’s lots to fill in for the in between,

But for now believe me she’s on the university scene!

It’s been a hard long haul out of that deep dark Well,

But it’s been worth every moment to get out of that hell,

To see her progress, succeed and shine,

She’s reaching her potential this princess of mine…

Now if you’re where I once was,

I want to give you hope and a little buzz,

I want you to know you can do it, it’s true,

Your child can progress – make steps forward too.

There’s no quick solution but so much you can do,

To enable your child and empower you.

Everyone can reach their full potential,

Remembering this is so very essential…

Take time for yourself and look after you,

Because you need your health to see this through,

And when you look back one day it will seem,

Less of a nightmare and much more of a dream…

– Caroline Seyedi (January 2021)